I did it. I finally did it. I achieved the ultimate achievement by far....I got a REFUND from Dell Inc, or shall I say "Delirium Inc" One might think after dealing with the "customer service" or as my friend Kari R so eloquently put it "customer runaround" (clever my dear, C-lever!) you were in a delirium and may want to commit yourself to either a small room with no light or windows, OR an mental institution. It all started over a yr ago when on a sunny spring day, my son Tyler wanted to buy a laptop computer, his VERY first laptop...but not just any computer, but a Dell Inc computer. Now one knows that when you go to buy something such as a computer one SHOULD do some research, comparison shop, etc,. However, if anyone has ever been a teen, or has a teen you know rational and common sense can sometimes lack (sorry kids, but the parts of your brain that control those 2 necessary elements are not fully grown until you are at least 21) My son Tyler wanting "instant gratification" (who doesn't??) asked me to help him put together a Dell laptop online and walk him thru the process of purchasing.
We get the system and within a 1, it starts having "software issues" We begin the arduous task of getting a hold of someone to get it resolved, after all Tyler was smart and purchased a long term extended warranty (which turned out to be more fabulous than if he had with another purchase, you'll understand later)We get it resolved, only to have something else occur, I forget exactly what as it has become a haze in my mind now. I decide as these problems continue to occur that MAYBE, just maybe he should get a refund and go into a store and buy one so that if a problem arises, he can take it to the store vs try and do it on the phone and such. When I speak to the customer runaround, ah-hem! I mean service I am notified that Dell has a 21 day policy vs a regular 30 day(or sometimes longer, dep on the item and store)policy, and guess what?? Its the 23 or 24th day! Again, deeo haze set in already at this time. Of course it is, right?! That my friends is when the "fun" begins! So to spare you a year long of details of the amount of emails that if laid side by side would measure 10 football fields (at least)and phone calls that had I had to pay for would be in the thousands of dollars which how curteous of them , its a 1-800 number....isnt Dell thinking of the customer??(Note: sarcasm in tone)I will say I have been hung up on, by phone AND chatting online, told I would be contacted back only to be ignored, spoken to as if Im stupid and the list goes on we come to the last say few months. Now mind you during all this "fun" transpiring we have exchanged my sons system a total of 3 times. I must tell you since Dell is soooo curteous and put the customer #1, the 3rd time they exchanged the system it was "as a favor" to me. Gee, arent they sweet??? I also must tell you that I was told that the 2nd system was going to be a "new" system and quickly found out when Dell says 'new', they dont really mean 'new' but 'refurbished'...note to self: contact Websters dictionary to notify them of the multiple definitions of 'new'. And gosh, since my son paid 1209.09 for his original computer, he shouldnt expect a 'new' system, right? I have many reasons to believe he was sent their def of 'new', and I will keep it at that.
I must say the systems they sent caused such laughter, which I now think was just the delirium I spoke about setting in, inc the 2ND one having the bottom piece very loose, and oh come to find out the screws are STRIPPED!! Wow, if that says 'new' I don't know what is, right? I mean who would think that when you go to a store, say Target and you buy say a box of cookies that it would be ridiculous of you to think that the package would be sealed and unopened right? Well, apparently if Dell sold cookies, you could expect not only the package open, but cookies missing!
So, let me just inform you, the saga doesn't end there. Oh and one detail I have forgotten to mention is that as we are going along following all their directions to try and solve the different issues with each system I asked numerous times to get a refund, which I was told was not possible because "so much time had passed". As if I didn't know right? I only spent countless hours contacting these people by email, phone and such. I mean who doesn't mind doing so, right? That is MY idea of F-U-N! (sarcastic tone again in case you didn't catch that) Lets see where were we, I'm confused, are you? (Pausing to read again to see where I left off as Ive gotten lost) Oh and also another thing I must note, is that I have been passed around by customer service more times than that ugly sweater your Aunt Thelma knit for you Christmas of '88 Gosh, this is going to be a way long story that I cant cut down as much as I thought I could. So, during this I contact several authorities, one inc the Attorney General (by the way if you want something done, contact him!) That's where the story takes a turn for the better. I was contacted again by the person I had been dealing with most recently, Mr. Nicholas Martin, and lo and behold he is not of Indian descent (no offense to people of Indian descent, I just cant understand you, as you probably me) and is the kind of person I would have EXPECTED I could have dealt with all along. Language barriers make it all the more interesting. He informs me the letter from the Atty General was received and he wants to discuss it with me. I decide I don't want to do it by phone, it ends up going awry and email is much easier to say my peace and be done. He requests I do a diagnostic and send him the results, in order to try and see whats wrong with the system, which is slower than your 87 yr old Granny with her walker! After some research we realize its worth 500.00 maybe, not 1200.00 which is what my son paid PLUS it doesn't have the extras my son paid for. However I guess they thought since they "did us a favor", they also were so "generous" and threw in a blue ray player, I guess out of the kindness of their heart. Not gonna fly with me. I'm a momma lion protecting her "cub", I'm gonna get a refund if I have to drive their and go to Dell Inc myself! You moms can relate. I inform him of these details and also tell him I will not stop til my son has a refund. One note I even went so far as to "build" a Dell on their site such as the one they sent, and it came to about the amount I said previously, no deal! I will say on their behalf I didn't already, is that this last time they DID send what seemed to be a "new" system by my standards of "new", again probably as a favor.
So here we are now. I was notified in the next email from Mr. Martin that he was processing my refund, lo and behold! What I didn't mention previously is the details in that letter from the Atty General. Apparently there was a big investigation of Dell and they admitted to a bunch of wrongdoing shall we say, inc the kind of stuff they did with me and came to a settlement which inc giving refunds to customers who have been abused by this wretched company. I was sickened by reading the charges that they admitted to doing, its saddening because I know I would have purchased more products from them. I do like their options such as colors of systems, and such. Its appealing but of course we know how they can work. Of course I cant say ALL Dell systems are bad, I have heard from a selective few they liked their Dell. So, I have been told a refund is in the process and I think we have reached the end, FINALLY! The sad thing is though that I do not trust this company so I cant even send in the system until I know fully how, when I'm getting my refund which should not be the case. It should be a fluid transaction, but then again this whole thing should have been a fluid transaction.
The moral of the story is this: Perseverance and diligence is KEY! And it pays off. It was rough, tiresome and being that I have continual health challenges, it made it even more difficult. But I was determined, as a mom but also as a principle. You might be wondering where the "daisies" in the title come into play and I would say that this task of seeking resolution was nothing like a field of daisies by any means.I will say this is not even the WHOLE story. I know I'm not alone, my friend Kari R has a similar story, see my link to her blog. No one should be treated as I was, nor my son was. SO if you are reading this, and you have had similar experience with your Dell by all means, let me know and I will put you in touch with all the necessary info. I'll let you know when Tyler receives his cold hard cash. Hopefully he'll buy his mom something pretty with that cold hard cash as a kickback for all her perseverance and diligence :o)
Saturday, June 27, 2009
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
The Story of "Jack" and his Transgendered Sister "Grace"...
Did I get your attention? Good, this is a story worth reading. Yesterday one of my beloved kitties, Jack (the black and white one in the pics on here) was savagely mauled and killed yesterday by either a coyote or mntn lion. The brutality of it and that it was during the bright of day (2PMish) causes us to think it was a mountain lion, but you never know because apparently animals such as those are feeding their young right now, and need food more than usualy I guess you could say. For some, their animals being killed would just be a matter of fact sort of thing, but for me quite honestly Im devastated. Yes, its not one of my family members, however my animals have always, always been a critical part of our family.
Jack, and his sister Grace (which later turned out to be a male, but shhh dont tell anyone cuz "Grace" is a transgendered kitty because I refuse to change her name esp for reason below) were a gift from my husband when I was really sick from MS and having a hard time. He thought having a "lap kitty" would help me cope with being in a wheelchair because at that time, we were told it was permanent and would get worse as time went on. Amazingly enough we had been looking for a kitten for some time and had lost another kitty, Stormie about 1 1/2 yrs before that from someone in our neighborhood poisoning several cats in the surrounding area. I didnt think I would ever get another cat after seeing Stormie go thru what she did and trying to deal with the loss of her. So, when we found "Grace" at a pet store close by where they were giving them away for free, we brought her home. When we told my daughter about the other kitties that were there, she said "I want the black and white one!" I was already attached to Grace and knew I wouldnt take her back, so it ended up being that my husband went back to the pet store and brought Jack home. It was great comic relief and "medicine" for me and I attribute my getting well partly because of them. I am amazed at how animals have that effect on a person and its not the first time I have had that happen. My kitties somehow, as did other animals we've had know when Im sick and will stay in bed with me when I am not well. My cats so much as would "investigate" nurses who would come for treatments and such as if to check and make sure they were "ok" and then watch over them every step of the way. People even remarked about them and they way they acted. Animals are great therapy.
Later on, we added a "brother" Olliver who has been an interesting mix to my feline family. Then we got "Roxy" and subsequently "Bruiser". Roxy is a chihuahua and Bruiser is a dauschaund and chihuahua, also known I found out later as a "chiweenie". All of their pictures are plastered all over here...which reminds me, I need more recent pics as I havent been here in a while! Roxy and Bruiser also have this amazing sense of when Im sick and wont leave my bedside if Im not well. I would have never thought I would have 3 cats at one time but now Im glad I did so Grace has someone with her as a companion. Jack recently decided he wanted to be an "inside and outside" cat, which when I got them we knew they would be inside cats because of what happened to Stormie. Unfortunately he got a taste for the outside one day when someone accidently let him out, and now we know the result of that happening. I will say funny enough if you look at more recent pics since we got Roxy and Bruiser aka (R&B ha ha!)you would think I do not have kids! Since my pet family members are way more willing to pose and my kids who are teens and for whatever lame reason shun the camera, somehow know at all times when I have camera. My son Tyler is the most likely to have the most pics since he started dating he has a girlfriend who loves having pics as much as I do....so I have her as part of my ammo :o) Otherwise I have side views of them which arent that good for a scrapbook or the kind of pics you want when they are kids. So, I DO have 3 kids, you just dont know what they look like unless you have seen them in person! Maybe I can get some shots when they are sleeping....hmm thats an idea.
So Jack, I miss you already, Im sorry you had to go thru whatt you did, and hope it was quick and you didnt suffer. I feel guilt in my heart for ever letting you out even if you wanted it and bugged us as much as you did wanting to be let out. I wish animals went to Heaven so I could have the assurance I would see you again, but I have been told since animals dont have souls they dont. I guess someday I will find out and maybe I will be surprised. If you are in Heaven now, I know you are probably sun bathing or if there are gophers up there, you are on it! You were a GREAT gopher catcher, although I didnt like the "presents" you brought home every time. Just know, Im thinking of you all the time loved you so much and hope and pray I can see you again. RIP Jack xoxo your human mommy
Jack, and his sister Grace (which later turned out to be a male, but shhh dont tell anyone cuz "Grace" is a transgendered kitty because I refuse to change her name esp for reason below) were a gift from my husband when I was really sick from MS and having a hard time. He thought having a "lap kitty" would help me cope with being in a wheelchair because at that time, we were told it was permanent and would get worse as time went on. Amazingly enough we had been looking for a kitten for some time and had lost another kitty, Stormie about 1 1/2 yrs before that from someone in our neighborhood poisoning several cats in the surrounding area. I didnt think I would ever get another cat after seeing Stormie go thru what she did and trying to deal with the loss of her. So, when we found "Grace" at a pet store close by where they were giving them away for free, we brought her home. When we told my daughter about the other kitties that were there, she said "I want the black and white one!" I was already attached to Grace and knew I wouldnt take her back, so it ended up being that my husband went back to the pet store and brought Jack home. It was great comic relief and "medicine" for me and I attribute my getting well partly because of them. I am amazed at how animals have that effect on a person and its not the first time I have had that happen. My kitties somehow, as did other animals we've had know when Im sick and will stay in bed with me when I am not well. My cats so much as would "investigate" nurses who would come for treatments and such as if to check and make sure they were "ok" and then watch over them every step of the way. People even remarked about them and they way they acted. Animals are great therapy.
Later on, we added a "brother" Olliver who has been an interesting mix to my feline family. Then we got "Roxy" and subsequently "Bruiser". Roxy is a chihuahua and Bruiser is a dauschaund and chihuahua, also known I found out later as a "chiweenie". All of their pictures are plastered all over here...which reminds me, I need more recent pics as I havent been here in a while! Roxy and Bruiser also have this amazing sense of when Im sick and wont leave my bedside if Im not well. I would have never thought I would have 3 cats at one time but now Im glad I did so Grace has someone with her as a companion. Jack recently decided he wanted to be an "inside and outside" cat, which when I got them we knew they would be inside cats because of what happened to Stormie. Unfortunately he got a taste for the outside one day when someone accidently let him out, and now we know the result of that happening. I will say funny enough if you look at more recent pics since we got Roxy and Bruiser aka (R&B ha ha!)you would think I do not have kids! Since my pet family members are way more willing to pose and my kids who are teens and for whatever lame reason shun the camera, somehow know at all times when I have camera. My son Tyler is the most likely to have the most pics since he started dating he has a girlfriend who loves having pics as much as I do....so I have her as part of my ammo :o) Otherwise I have side views of them which arent that good for a scrapbook or the kind of pics you want when they are kids. So, I DO have 3 kids, you just dont know what they look like unless you have seen them in person! Maybe I can get some shots when they are sleeping....hmm thats an idea.
So Jack, I miss you already, Im sorry you had to go thru whatt you did, and hope it was quick and you didnt suffer. I feel guilt in my heart for ever letting you out even if you wanted it and bugged us as much as you did wanting to be let out. I wish animals went to Heaven so I could have the assurance I would see you again, but I have been told since animals dont have souls they dont. I guess someday I will find out and maybe I will be surprised. If you are in Heaven now, I know you are probably sun bathing or if there are gophers up there, you are on it! You were a GREAT gopher catcher, although I didnt like the "presents" you brought home every time. Just know, Im thinking of you all the time loved you so much and hope and pray I can see you again. RIP Jack xoxo your human mommy
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Milk and Cookies
I saw a show today where a family would have milk and cookies together which opened up many conversations between them. They talked about their day, their problems, and hopes and dreams. It made me think about how we can have "milk and cookies" with God anytime, any place. What is your fav cookie? Mine are the old standard Oreos. Just the thought of Oreos and milk makes my mouth water and wanting to run to the store for a quick stop for a package...or 2. Oreos dont last long int his house, so if youwant any you have to act fast! I have been known to stash a package or 2 in my closet...shhh dont tell my family. Oh c'mon you know you have a stash somewhere right??? We are women...oreos and esp chocolate are a necessity to surviving this life, lets be honest here. Ok maybe Im being a llittle dramatic but Im still have a stash and will always have one. If you tell me where yours is, I'll tell you where mine is. :oP
The truth is, we dont have to wait for Him to finish what He's doing worry we are talking too much or taking up His time. We dont even have to worry about how many calories are in the cookies we have with Him....wow fat free AND calorie free! It doesnt get any better than that. But we do know and can have the assurance if we dont that we can talk to God about anything and I mean anything...significant or not so significant...big or small...joys and struggles. Hes there.
I find myself forgetting that during the day. Lately I have been so focused on "remembering" everything I need to do and getting my to do list completed (do you EVER get to check the last thing off, really?? Not if youre a mom/wife you dont!)I have been feverently reaching for the target which I thought and many times think I need to reach....to do all and be all. It seems the more I am unable to do such an impossible feat, the MORE I want to be it. I want control of my world...even if its in my home, life and even my mind which I seem to be losing these days. Sometimes I forget to do something as simple as take my medicine (which everybody has done a time or 2 right?)or something as significant as missing an important appointment or what is hardest for me which is completely forgetting I have a to do list at all. Now this might seem like a good thing but imagine your child coming to you as they do everyday if you have kids big or small and saying "Mom, whats for dinner (It seems they do that MORE when they are teens doesnt it??Ha Ha)and you have even forgotten you have to make dinner. How about asking your child if they have homework...the list goes on and quite frankly I have forgotten what I have forgotten to do theres been so much.
So it seems to me its even MORE important now for me to stop and have Spiritual Oreos and milk with the One who knows All and is All. Oh yeah that reminds me...thats one of the BIGGIES I forget to do, and not just always out of busyness but out of sheer complete memory loss from ms which I have. Thats one thing I CANT forget I have, how I wish I could. Anyways back to what I was saying....I many times have completely and utterly have forgotten to talk to God or quite honestly that He even exists, and I feel really awful about it. Its not that I have disconnected from Him, its just that my mind these days just completely blocks me from the reality that I know God is REAL. Its hard to explain and I wish I could explain it to get it out so people can understand. Its kind of like a loss of awareness in a way. Its one aspect I dont like for many reasons...1 being that if Im honest it goes back to the control factor.
I use to be the person who could remember everything detail on my to do list, phone numbers (didnt even own a phone/address book) friends birthdays, what bills are due on what day, kids school activities and what activities I needed to do what for. The list goes on. There were so many things I use to remember that I cant even remember them all. Now, I have to write literally everything down, the exact second I have found lately I remember or think of something I need to do. Which reminds me...think for a second the many things you do in a day. Now think about if you forgot to do those things....how would that feel, what would be the effect? Not a fun thought is it? Not just a simple you forgot and you remember later that day or something, but a complete you forgot and dont remember it until (if you do at all or find it written down on a list you forgot where you put it) maybe weeks later or something triggers you to remember it. What if you forgot you had a job, school, kids, bills to pay (sometimes I wish I could forget those things even existed Ha Ha)an important deadline or appointment, church, church activities etc>Or emails you were supposed to answer and forgot to. The list grows because we have so much responsiblity and life is crazy sometimes. My reason for opening that up is not to gain pity ( but a new pair of shoes or purse would help my mood for sure) but to cause anyone reading this to think about the fact that in all that madness God is there...He knows my trouble. He knows that I have although forgotten Him, I havent forgotten Him in the sense Im off doing my own thing (although we all have a tendency to do that which is a whole other topic. But you know what I mean. Its about awareness vs a rebellious will.
So at the end of the day, despite all that I will forget today or tomorrow God is always there, waiting with milk and cookies.Thats my point. Yes I do have one and so far I havent forgotten, it, lucky you! All I know is that despite what I have going on in my day, and you in yours, we have a God ready and waiting to hear about those troubles. Even if we do forget to talk to Him out of busyness or disease just know that when you do remember, Hes there waiting with a plate of Oreos and a tall glass (with a wide opening for dunking) of ice cold milk. Isnt that amazing? He knows our hearts and He knows our minds, forgetful or not. By the way, are you a dunker or a purist and eat the cookie straight? Or maybe you are one of those who peels the top off and eats the middle FIRST and then dunks....No matter what way you eat your Oreos know that God is never forgetful and ALWAYS mindful of you and I. Never forget that...and even if you do it doesnt mean its not true so write it down somewhere on your to do list.
Now even though its morning, Im off to have milk and cookies...no not the real kind which reminds me, I need to go to the store!See how it goes??)but the kind that you can have in the AM and not feel guily and more importantly the kind of thing we should start every day with.
So the next time you want to hit the floor running to try and get that to do list done, just remember God is waiting to have milk and cookies. Just think you wont have to worry about running out of milk or cookies...which reminds me again...Im out of Oreos. I better go now so I can write it on my to do list before I forget such an important thing.
So, heres to milk and cookies and the God who is waiting to have them with us!
LG
The truth is, we dont have to wait for Him to finish what He's doing worry we are talking too much or taking up His time. We dont even have to worry about how many calories are in the cookies we have with Him....wow fat free AND calorie free! It doesnt get any better than that. But we do know and can have the assurance if we dont that we can talk to God about anything and I mean anything...significant or not so significant...big or small...joys and struggles. Hes there.
I find myself forgetting that during the day. Lately I have been so focused on "remembering" everything I need to do and getting my to do list completed (do you EVER get to check the last thing off, really?? Not if youre a mom/wife you dont!)I have been feverently reaching for the target which I thought and many times think I need to reach....to do all and be all. It seems the more I am unable to do such an impossible feat, the MORE I want to be it. I want control of my world...even if its in my home, life and even my mind which I seem to be losing these days. Sometimes I forget to do something as simple as take my medicine (which everybody has done a time or 2 right?)or something as significant as missing an important appointment or what is hardest for me which is completely forgetting I have a to do list at all. Now this might seem like a good thing but imagine your child coming to you as they do everyday if you have kids big or small and saying "Mom, whats for dinner (It seems they do that MORE when they are teens doesnt it??Ha Ha)and you have even forgotten you have to make dinner. How about asking your child if they have homework...the list goes on and quite frankly I have forgotten what I have forgotten to do theres been so much.
So it seems to me its even MORE important now for me to stop and have Spiritual Oreos and milk with the One who knows All and is All. Oh yeah that reminds me...thats one of the BIGGIES I forget to do, and not just always out of busyness but out of sheer complete memory loss from ms which I have. Thats one thing I CANT forget I have, how I wish I could. Anyways back to what I was saying....I many times have completely and utterly have forgotten to talk to God or quite honestly that He even exists, and I feel really awful about it. Its not that I have disconnected from Him, its just that my mind these days just completely blocks me from the reality that I know God is REAL. Its hard to explain and I wish I could explain it to get it out so people can understand. Its kind of like a loss of awareness in a way. Its one aspect I dont like for many reasons...1 being that if Im honest it goes back to the control factor.
I use to be the person who could remember everything detail on my to do list, phone numbers (didnt even own a phone/address book) friends birthdays, what bills are due on what day, kids school activities and what activities I needed to do what for. The list goes on. There were so many things I use to remember that I cant even remember them all. Now, I have to write literally everything down, the exact second I have found lately I remember or think of something I need to do. Which reminds me...think for a second the many things you do in a day. Now think about if you forgot to do those things....how would that feel, what would be the effect? Not a fun thought is it? Not just a simple you forgot and you remember later that day or something, but a complete you forgot and dont remember it until (if you do at all or find it written down on a list you forgot where you put it) maybe weeks later or something triggers you to remember it. What if you forgot you had a job, school, kids, bills to pay (sometimes I wish I could forget those things even existed Ha Ha)an important deadline or appointment, church, church activities etc>Or emails you were supposed to answer and forgot to. The list grows because we have so much responsiblity and life is crazy sometimes. My reason for opening that up is not to gain pity ( but a new pair of shoes or purse would help my mood for sure) but to cause anyone reading this to think about the fact that in all that madness God is there...He knows my trouble. He knows that I have although forgotten Him, I havent forgotten Him in the sense Im off doing my own thing (although we all have a tendency to do that which is a whole other topic. But you know what I mean. Its about awareness vs a rebellious will.
So at the end of the day, despite all that I will forget today or tomorrow God is always there, waiting with milk and cookies.Thats my point. Yes I do have one and so far I havent forgotten, it, lucky you! All I know is that despite what I have going on in my day, and you in yours, we have a God ready and waiting to hear about those troubles. Even if we do forget to talk to Him out of busyness or disease just know that when you do remember, Hes there waiting with a plate of Oreos and a tall glass (with a wide opening for dunking) of ice cold milk. Isnt that amazing? He knows our hearts and He knows our minds, forgetful or not. By the way, are you a dunker or a purist and eat the cookie straight? Or maybe you are one of those who peels the top off and eats the middle FIRST and then dunks....No matter what way you eat your Oreos know that God is never forgetful and ALWAYS mindful of you and I. Never forget that...and even if you do it doesnt mean its not true so write it down somewhere on your to do list.
Now even though its morning, Im off to have milk and cookies...no not the real kind which reminds me, I need to go to the store!See how it goes??)but the kind that you can have in the AM and not feel guily and more importantly the kind of thing we should start every day with.
So the next time you want to hit the floor running to try and get that to do list done, just remember God is waiting to have milk and cookies. Just think you wont have to worry about running out of milk or cookies...which reminds me again...Im out of Oreos. I better go now so I can write it on my to do list before I forget such an important thing.
So, heres to milk and cookies and the God who is waiting to have them with us!
LG
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